tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7763777887807344904.post4574814075376649446..comments2023-06-23T05:33:14.218-05:00Comments on Learning to Be a Newlywed: this is how we're doingBonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01805401564651493025noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7763777887807344904.post-69411062642172482382010-09-29T10:02:59.123-05:002010-09-29T10:02:59.123-05:00I just read where you wrote "what have I done...I just read where you wrote "what have I done to my son?" If this is in response to your home birth remember:there are many sick babies in the NICU all the time, and they were all born in the hospital. this is important for you and Travis both:<br />we don't know, and never will know why the events happened in James' birth as they did. Don't beat yourselves up over it. Let it go. Free yourselves; don't be dragged down by "What ifs." <br />MomAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7763777887807344904.post-78798742641486094782010-09-28T21:49:31.277-05:002010-09-28T21:49:31.277-05:00Still praying so often for you all... When I hear...Still praying so often for you all... When I hear the words you write I wonder where you get the grace and strength (I know the God provides that, but after all we are, well, human). Thank you for your transparency, it allows for those of us praying to know specifically how to lift you up.Mrs. Hanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12404002863289211482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7763777887807344904.post-55784757648529430982010-09-28T21:46:14.585-05:002010-09-28T21:46:14.585-05:00Bonnie- Thank you for taking the time to update u...Bonnie- Thank you for taking the time to update us on your family. I'm sure it took courage and strength to even type some of those words. I will continue to pray for energy, strength, and guidance for your weeks ahead. I'm sure your tired body and mind will need all of that.<br /><br />We missed you at girls night and all raised a glass for you and your family! Can't wait for you to get back with us when time allows.Molly Hermannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7763777887807344904.post-87791649439616095282010-09-28T21:24:51.027-05:002010-09-28T21:24:51.027-05:00Bonnie
We continue to pray for you. The Holy Hour...Bonnie<br />We continue to pray for you. The Holy Hour was amazing. I am so glad my children and I could attend. Please know that James has touch my girls lives. They are praying. One wouldn't leave until she said yet another prayer for James. I really think that James and your whole family is helping my family grow spiritually. James is amazing and God is doing great things thru him. Bonnie I know you are a great mom. I have seen you with your kids. This is in NO way your fault. Please remember that always. Please know you are safe and loved in Gods Hands. God Bless LoriLorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00696814466759799987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7763777887807344904.post-28460779625376432602010-09-28T17:41:47.277-05:002010-09-28T17:41:47.277-05:00Bonnie,
I literally just prayed for you and James...Bonnie,<br /><br />I literally just prayed for you and James. My heart bleeds for you...I wish I had the power to make it better for you. I know, though, no matter what happens, James is so lucky to have the two of you as parents. I wish him healing. <br /><br />Love, EmAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7763777887807344904.post-32531518400946391842010-09-28T16:42:00.590-05:002010-09-28T16:42:00.590-05:00You don't know me but I have been following yo...You don't know me but I have been following your posts since James was born. I am a pediatric nurse and I have seen some very sad cases in the last few years. No matter the outcome of James health, I appreciate the involved parents you have been in his recovery, I appreciate the prayers you send forth, and most of all I appreciate the love you have shown him in his short life. Just know that I am praying for you and your family, know that no matter the outcome, I will continue to pray for all of you, and know that even when nurses may say the wrong things, they still love and care for your child just like it is their own. Prayers to your whole family... JenniferJennifernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7763777887807344904.post-71544311056659968042010-09-28T15:34:29.286-05:002010-09-28T15:34:29.286-05:00Bonnie, we have been praying. thank you for taking...Bonnie, we have been praying. thank you for taking the time to share your life and James with all of us. Tim tried to stop by a few times, but I think he missed you and Travis.<br />(((Bonnie)))<br />love, and many pryaers, the RodersLisa Rodernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7763777887807344904.post-55495322006296966302010-09-28T09:13:56.531-05:002010-09-28T09:13:56.531-05:00Thank you for being vulnerable and letting me into...Thank you for being vulnerable and letting me into your world to see how all of you are doing. I have spent so much time in prayer for all of you lately and it really helps to know exactly how to pray for you. We will be at the prayer time tonight. Love you all.Sarah Hedmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16756191766980020810noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7763777887807344904.post-16468238135070620802010-09-28T07:14:52.229-05:002010-09-28T07:14:52.229-05:00Bonnie- Thank you for the update on all of you. I ...Bonnie- Thank you for the update on all of you. I have been worried about how you all are doing. I pray for all of you daily, and I will continue. I pray for strength and ocntinued hope, I pray that your babies understand...as best as babies can. I haven't called because I know you are tired and busy and probably overwhelmed. But, know that I think of you and pray for you daily. Love to you, my friend.Sarahbiznoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7763777887807344904.post-78716559060855411382010-09-28T05:55:32.219-05:002010-09-28T05:55:32.219-05:00oh bonnie... such heartwrenching questions you are...oh bonnie... such heartwrenching questions you are asking yourself right now. my heart is ACHING for you. this is that worst case scenario that moms fear- you are living it.<br /><br />and yet... you ARE living it. you are NOT alone. you are tackling one day at a time- one moment at a time. <br /><br />i know that your mind goes there, but try to stay in this moment. right at this moment, everyone is safe. at each and every moment, someone, probably lots of people, are praying for you and james and your family. all the angels and saints are praying. mary holds all of you safely in her starry mantle. she loves you all so much. <br /><br />you did not do anything wrong. you did not cause this. our world unfolds as it does, yet God gives us the graces to handle it, moment by moment, with Him. you are a beautiful woman, and you are right- God gave you this little boy because you are exactly the mama he needs. <br /><br />much love and prayers-<br />jenUnschoolin' Familyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18399773676183495394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7763777887807344904.post-4783889877189705462010-09-27T23:52:29.046-05:002010-09-27T23:52:29.046-05:00Bonnie- I visit your blog occasionally and only ju...Bonnie- I visit your blog occasionally and only just saw about little James' birth. First, Congratulations! You and your little family will be in my prayers. I can't imagine how hard this is on all of you. I'm excited for you about finally getting to hold him. I hardly put my daughter down for the first 24 hours of her life; I know it must be tortorous for you not to be able to hold his sweet little body.Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05117120475033380036noreply@blogger.com